You have a friend. Very close friend. But he/she hasn’t said ‘I love you’ and you are trying to find out if this friend loves you or not.
We’ve all had situations like that.
It’s important to understand that some people do not find it easy verbalizing their love.
This may be probably because he or she has been hurt before or it could be that finding the right time is their problem.
For some, they are afraid of rejection and they just want to be sure.
Wouldn’t it be awesome, you finding it yourself than waiting for your friend to say it out?
There are telltale signs to know if someone truly loves you or is interested in you.
Here are the signs.
1. You find it in the eyes.
The stares, the gazes.
When someone truly loves you or is interested in you, the person will want to maintain eye contact at every opportunity it presents itself.
Sometimes you may catch them staring at you.
We focus more on the things we love. If they stare, they are interested.
2. See if the person loves to do what you are doing when you are together.
It’s also known as mirroring.
When someone truly loves you or is interested in you, the person unconsciously mirror every act you do.
For example, if you slouch, unconsciously they follow suit.
If you sit up straight, they seem to do the same.
If you catch them doing what you are doing, they are truly interested or loves you.
3. His or her friends begins to pay you some compliment.
This another sure way to know if the person you are suspecting truly loves you or is interested.
His buddies or her girlfriends respects your presence by saying nice things about you.
They must have talked or discussed so much about you that it reflected in their behavior.
If the guys they hangs around with likes you, he or she truly loves you or is interested.
4. He or she loves to listen to your responses.
Wanting to get your own opinion or views on an issue is a telltale sign of someone who truly loves you or is interested.
The person may not agree with you always but values your opinion.
If they ask questions a lot, they are interested or truly loves you.
5. The person laughs at your subtle jokes.
You are engaged in a conversation and you just threw a joke, if he or she finds it funny or hilarious, they truly love you or are interested.
So, if they laugh at your jokes or finds you amusing easily, they truly love you or are interested.
6. The person gave you a nickname.
Pet name or nicknames is a way we show affection towards someone.
This happens when we start developing attraction for someone.
You will find out that a nickname or pet name will just pop out of your mind which you may end up using to call the person you love.
If they nicknamed you, they are truly interested or love you.
7. He or she talks to you a lot.
We mostly talk to who we love.
The person may be of a quiet nature but may become noisy or engaging in conversations.
They decide to talk more because they want to connect with you. If they love talking to you, they are interested or love you.
8. The person shows you affection publicly.
Showing affection for someone publicly is a sign of approval.
When the person does things for you or always wanting to help you out publicly and doesn’t mind is a telltale sign.
It may be subtle but speaks volumes. If they help you out publicly, they truly love you or are interested.
9. The person gives you his/her time.
We spend time with whom we love.
If the person spends lots of time with you and isn’t conscious of how time flies and also finds it difficult to leave you, it’s a telltale sign.
If they enjoy being with you, you are truly loved.
10. You get surprise gifts from them.
When you receive a gift from the person, it shows that you have been on the person’s mind. Gift is an expression of a thought.
If you got the gift from them unexpectedly, they are interested or truly loves you.
11. He or she loves to touch.
Touching behaviors is a sign of affection which is a subconscious act.
Even our pets tell us they love us by touching us physically.
If the person touches you (not sexually) but in the right ways such as squeezing your hands as you walk, a friendly hug etc. it is a telltale signs.
If it’s in a sexual way, it could be lust. If they touch you physically, they are interested or they love you.
12. The person’s feet points to you.
When a person truly loves you, his or her feet will definitely point to your direction.
It’s actually a subconscious desire to connect with you.
If their feet points to you, they truly love you or are interested.
13. He or she is concerned about your well-being.
Tell the person about something that bothers you, do they seem bothered about it or try to help you find a way through it?
Someone’s concern of your problems with a desire for a solution is a telltale sign.
If your problems bothers them, they are truly interested or love you.
14. The person usually notices a significant change in your appearance, tone or mood and wants to make you feel better.
For example, if you made your hair, he or she is probably the first to pay compliments.
People don’t pay attention unless they are interested.
If they compliment you on a significant change, they are truly interested or they love you.
15. The person gets nervous or fidgets much around you.
Such as stammering showing off in front of friends, playing with hair, not saying much but staying in the conversation are all signs of interest in someone .
If they seem shy or nervous, they probably love you or are interested.